"Here I am going to say something which may come as a bit of a shock. God doesn't necessarily want us to be happy. He wants us to be lovable. Worthy of love."
― William Nicholson, Shadowlands

Happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Love is not a feeling. Love is a verb.

Cheryl says, "God put us here to love and be loved."

Whether you believe in God or not, loving others and allowing yourself to be loved is a good way to live.