My friend Eric asked, "Why do you write letters to Cheryl when you could just talk to her?"

Writing takes time: Time to reflect on situations. Time to process my thoughts and feelings. Time to better understand myself. Time to express what I want to say to Cheryl and how I want to say it.

One of my strengths is writing. It is smart to use my strengths to improve my relationships. Like exercising a muscle, using my strengths will help me and my relationships grow stronger.

I wanted to start this blog because I wanted to share my thoughts with you. Blogging is a way to take time, use my strength, and show I care.

But I only have so much time, energy, and ability to write. Often I choose to write to Cheryl instead of you. Sorry, but I'm no fool.